Chapter 941 [Dong Xuebin's Past]
morning.
Inside a Porsche.
Dong Xuebin drove the car onto the expressway intently, while Sun Kai sat in the co-pilot seat and looked at him, as if he had something to say.
"What's wrong?" Dong Xuebin turned his head.
"Brother Dong." Sun Kai said, "Thank you."
Dong Xuebin smiled and said, "Thank you? Is there anything to be thankful for?"
Sun Kai gritted his back teeth and said, "It's too much, me, I heard Jingjing said yesterday that her family doesn't quite agree with me about dating her, and no one is willing to support us, only you are willing to help. We, um, and the lucky money for my sister's children, thank you too, Brother Dong."
Dong Xuebin shook his hand and said, "Xiaojing is my sister. She begged me, so I naturally have to help. That red envelope is also for the child, so you don't need to thank me."
"But that's too much money."
"I said it was piece by piece, not much."
"How is it possible, Brother Dong, I'm not stupid, I know you want to help me."
Dong Xuebin looked at him, "Now your family is counting on you, right? Does Xiaojing know the situation of your family?"
Sun Kai's expression froze, "She doesn't know, I haven't had time to tell her."
"Why didn't you say it? Are you afraid that Xiaojing will look down on you?" Dong Xuebin said bluntly.
Hearing this, Sun Kai hesitated for a while, but nodded.
As soon as Dong Xuebin turned the steering wheel and hit him on purpose, he said: "But I don't think Xiaojing looks down on you now, but you look down on yourself."
Sun Kai sighed and said, "What you're saying is, but the current situation of my family is too different from that of Xiaojing's family. I, I really don't deserve her." Since knowing the situation in Xie Jing's family, Sun Kai has been constantly on the move. Thinking like this, I even thought that walking away and leaving Xie Jing's world was the most correct choice.
"Why do you say that?"
"My family is poor, and I have no ability. Brother Dong, you may not understand my current mood. If I had one-tenth of your ability, I would not be so..."
Dong Xuebin blinked his eyes,
Said: "Hehe, why can't I understand?"
Sun Kai felt that he was knowingly asking, "You are born with ability and ability, but I..."
"Then you don't think we are from the same world? So I can't understand you?" Dong Xuebin asked.
"Not all, but you are in a high position at a young age, and you have money and power, and I... you may not have had a hard time, in our family, a penny really has to be split in half. Yes, I know I may not be confident, but... I really can't be confident in front of Jingjing."
Dong Xuebin laughed and said, "How do you know that I haven't had a hard time?" This is the first question Dong Xuebin asked.
"You can still have a hard life? Impossible." Of course Sun Kai didn't believe it.
Dong Xuebin shook his head slightly and slowed down the car a little, "Xiao Sun, I don't agree with what you said, you are too self-sacrificing now, well, I admit that some people are born with a golden key, such as Xiao Sun. Jing, but do you think that Xiao Jing got to the current position of the head of the personnel department of Xinhua News Agency purely by virtue of her family relationship? How could it be, Xiao Jing was born in this kind of family, the elders will definitely help her, but More depends on her. If Xiaojing didn't work hard at all, if she didn't work seriously, if she didn't make progress in her career, she wouldn't be able to get to where she is now even with the help of her family. Everything was done by her own efforts. One thing I can tell you very clearly, you only saw Xiaojing's family members are high-ranking leaders, but you ignored Xiaojing's own efforts, I still say that, everyone is human, and they have grown a Head, who is worse than who?"
Sun Kai said, "But..."
"Let's talk about me." Dong Xuebin interrupted with a smile: "I'm born with skills? Are you kidding me? Do you really think I'll be rich, car and capable since I was born?"
Sun Kai blinked, obviously thinking so.
"Let me tell you, I used to be far worse than you. You studied well and mastered three foreign languages, but what about me? My grades have been average since middle school and high school. I was in the middle and lower reaches of the class. You can also see the appearance, it is much worse than you, and it is inconspicuous in the class. If I go to the class reunion now, they probably won't be able to call me by my name, because I am a dispensable in the class. People, no one cares about me, even the teacher who has taught me for two years sometimes can't name me in class, can you imagine?"
"This……"
"Haha, I'm called born with the ability? Then my ability is too great!"
"You are low-key and don't want to show off," Sun Kai said seriously.
Dong Xuebin laughed dumbly, "You look down on me too much, Xiaosun, didn't Xiaojing tell you about my family's situation?"
Sun Kai snorted, "She said that you are very powerful and can solve anything."
Dong Xuebin said: "You don't think I am the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich?"
"Aren't you?" Sun Kai was taken aback, he really thought so.
Dong Xuebin said happily: "My mother is also a teacher, the most grassroots kind, with a salary of 2,000 yuan in January, my father used to be a worker, the hardest and most tiring kind, my father's family has no relatives, and my mother's family has no relatives. In the countryside, hehe, have you ever seen such a second generation of officials? Have you ever seen such a second generation of rich?"
Sun Kai said, "Are you serious?"
Dong Xuebin said lightly: "There are some things I haven't told my lover or anyone else, I'll tell you today, huh, my family used to be much harder than your family's life now, Don't look at me like that, I didn't make up with you, I'm just telling the truth, tǐng years ago, my father was critically ill, and the surgery and medical expenses cost a lot of money. I sold the house to my dad to see a doctor. Within a few months, all the savings in the family were wiped out. My dad's illness was not cured, and it was finally gone. Since then, my mother and I haven't eaten much. I had to pay the rent and pay for my schooling. At that time, my family was more than splitting a penny in half? Almost every day was made of vegetables and steamed buns, even eggs and fruits? Don’t mention it anymore, a It’s good to eat once a month, and it’s the neighbors who help my family.”
Sun Kai looked at him in astonishment, how could it be? Even in their home, the meat can still be eaten, and it will not be all vegetables and steamed buns every day.
Dong Xuebin spread his hands, "This kind of life has passed for about three or four years. At that time, I realized what a hard life is, but I am different from you. I never looked down on myself once. Later, after graduating from university, I was admitted to the civil service. , and then climbed up step by step with my own efforts. What’s wrong with no background? What’s wrong with my poor family? What I thought at the time was to make a fool of myself and let my mother live a good life, and I didn’t have anything else. I have thought about it, and it is with this tone that I have come to this day, and I have made every step by myself, instead of sitting at home and complaining and waiting for the pie to fall from the sky, so I am who I am now, and I can sit Talk to you in the car."
"Brother Dong..." Sun Kai didn't know what to say.
To be honest, he really thought that Dong Xuebin was born into a rich and powerful family, but he did not expect that brother-in-law Xiaojing was also born in a poor family.
From penniless to worth hundreds of millions?
From nothing to high weight? ?
From Dong Xuebin's tone, Sun Kai can also hear how many setbacks Dong Xuebin has experienced, and those hardships may not be what he can imagine. Thinking about it now, Sun Kai also understands why Dong Xuebin didn't look down on him like others after he entered his house, and even sat down on a dirty bench casually, completely ignoring the tens of thousands of dollars in his body. With a suit of more than 100,000 yuan, he talked to his family very warmly and politely, and Sun Kai realized that Dong Xuebin's previous life was even more difficult than theirs.
Dong Xuebin looked at him and said, "Do you still say that your family is suffering? At least you still have your own house, you have your own home, you don't have to worry about food and clothing, and the elderly at home are also healthy, isn't that enough? Compared with me, you are too happy now. What else can you complain about? Don’t look down on yourself, your family has no money to buy meat? Three jobs came over! I felt inferior at that time, but I never felt that others were much better than me! Their income was tens of thousands a month? If I can’t work for one year, I will work for two years! They can earn tens of thousands! They all have backgrounds? Can they be promoted through relationships without too much effort? Then I will work hard for them ten times and a hundred times! I can still make leaders trust me! I can still rise step by step! I am Lost at the starting line, but so what? I won't lose forever! They won't win forever!"
Sun Kai's breathing was a little short.
Dong Xuebin said: "Now that I have done it, why can't you? I'm just wondering, how can you be worse than others when you rely on your own hands to eat? Why are you lower than others? Talk about his grandma!" Dong Xuebin sideways He looked at him with his head, and slapped him heavily, "tǐng qiōng! Raise your head! Remember what I said, you can bow your head to others in this society, but you can never bow to yourself at any time! That way you Really lost!"
Atmosphere.
Dong Xuebin looked at him and said, "I'll ask you one last question, do you want to win or lose? If you think it's like this for the rest of your life, then get out of the car now, and it's still too late to go back!"
Sun Kai gritted his teeth and clenched his fists, "...I want to win!"
"Just want to win!"
"Brother Dong, I think I understand!"
Dong Xuebin smiled and said, "That's good, it's not in vain that I told you so much."
"Don't worry!" Sun Kai took a deep breath and said firmly: "I will fight hard this time! I won't let you and Xiaojing down! You will be my goal in the future! You can do it, so can I! "
"Good! The momentum is good!"! .