Chapter 21 Quarrel

"I owe you, do you want to pay you back?" Qiao Dongliang sneered: "Who mentioned that there is a second child and wants a son?"

At the beginning, Lao Ding obviously said that there was only one child in the family and he was too lonely, and wanted to have a second child. Because of the conflict with family planning, Lao Ding said that he wanted to have another child, and his career and future were not as important as children.

Qiao Dongliang does not deny that he is a traditional Chinese man, and he thinks that only sons can carry on the family line, but he does not force it.

Later, after hearing his wife's suggestion, he was also tempted, or in a moment of confusion, in order to have a son, he lost his job and future.

What Qiao Dongliang regrets is not that he has a little daughter like Qiao Nan, but what he regrets is that he shouldn't have sacrificed everything just to have a son.

If it weren't for this, the wife wouldn't blame Nan Nan for not giving birth to a son and work.

"Old Ding, if I don't say anything, it doesn't mean I don't know. You should know what's going on with your Ding family and how you grew up. Are you going to let Nan Nan suffer the pain you once experienced? ? Does Nan Nan owe you, or do you want to owe Nan Nan?"

Ding Jiayi has lived in a patriarchal family since she was a child. The reason why the old cadre of Qiao's father's old friend introduced Ding Jiayi to Qiao Dongliang was to find a way out for both of them.

Qiao Dongliang's parents are gone, and his relatives are almost broken.

It is difficult for a person like this to find a wife.

But when he was in the army, Qiao Dongliang was just a platoon leader, only a little better than ordinary soldiers, and his future was not obvious, so he couldn't find a partner. .

In this way, Qiao Dongliang's candidate for a wife became more and more embarrassing, and it was difficult to find.

As for Ding Jiayi, the living conditions of the Ding family are not bad, but Ding Jiayi has three younger brothers.

Ding's father and Ding's mother calculated that marrying daughter-in-laws for their three sons must be done in a prosperous way, and they must have a house. After counting, the family's money is not enough to spend.

So, Ding's father and Ding's mother turned their ideas on the eldest daughter Ding Jiayi.

The three younger brothers were all brought up by Ding Jiayi. Even so, Ding Jiayi's status in the Ding family was like that of a little maid in the Ding family. She worked the most and ate the least, so she still had to be scolded.

Ding Jiayi is also smart. When her eldest brother was learning knowledge, she would always read his books by taking the opportunity to take care of him.

Sometimes, Ding Jiayi can teach the older brother what the older brother in school doesn't understand.

That's right, Ding Jiayi stumbled and finished the elementary school level self-study intermittently, at least she knew a lot of Chinese characters.

In Ding Jiayi's time, her level of education was considered high.

When Ding Jiayi grew into a big girl, Ding's father and Ding's mother didn't think about keeping the eldest daughter at home, so that the eldest daughter could take all the money from her work home.

The idea of ​​Ding's father and Ding's mother was to find a "good family", ask the other party for more gift money, and then quickly marry the eldest daughter.

At that time, Ding's father and Ding's mother not only found a family, but also discussed the dowry money. They said they were marrying their daughter, but many people understood that it was basically selling their daughter.

The man Ding Jiayi is going to marry is not to mention short, in his forties, a little older than Ding's father.

But the problem is, after that red era, this man will be noisy, he is a pioneer, he has a good background, and he has a little power in his hands.

Father Ding found an official son-in-law.

This man is old, and his ugly appearance doesn't count. The worst thing is that this man has a bad temper. No one can explain exactly how the missing daughter-in-law died.

When Ding Jiayi heard that she was going to marry such a person, Ding Jiayi was so frightened that she didn't want to die.

This story was passed from left to right, and reached the ears of veteran cadres. The old cadres summed up that the son of his old friend was a soldier in the army, but the old friend was framed. On the surface, it seemed that his status was not good, and he had no other relatives at home. , I am worried that it is difficult to find a daughter-in-law.

This girl, she looks good, and she can read and write, but her natal family is not very reliable, if the two of them are willing, they can make do with each other.

The veteran cadres didn't want to mess up the mandarin ducks, so they explained the situation of the two parties to each other, and let Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi decide whether it would work or not.

When Ding Jiayi heard about Qiao Dongliang's situation, she nodded immediately.

At that time, it was not good to be a soldier for any job.

No elders at home? That's okay, if she gets married, then she will be the master of the house, and she will have two less elders to take care of her and two less people to serve her.

There is no brother without brothers, as long as one's own man is strong, he is better than anything else.

Ding Jiayi agreed quickly, but Qiao Dongliang hesitated a little, and finally agreed, and the two got married and started a family.

Relying on Qiao Dongliang's relationship, Ding Jiayi, with the help of veteran cadres, not only got married and had a new life, but also got a good and decent new job, and her life has taken a qualitative leap.

At that time, Ding Jiayi felt that marrying Qiao Dongliang was the best decision she made in her life.

The Ding family has a heavy patriarchal mindset. Ding Jiayi has been working as a babysitter since she was a child. The three younger brothers were brought up one by one, and they were caught outside the house.

After having her eldest daughter, Ding Jiayi was not disappointed for long, and she was very kind to her eldest daughter, as if she wanted to make up for the happy childhood she had missed on her eldest daughter.

It's also a daughter, but when it's Qiao Nan's turn, the treatment is as high as the sky and the bottom of the earth.

"At the beginning, you said that you didn't have to work in order to have a second child. You insisted that I have this second child. For this, I left my favorite army. Lao Ding, for this child, I sacrificed more than you Nannan is either a son or a daughter, who is to blame, can she be blamed? You don’t live up to your expectations, and you still have the face to blame your daughter?!"

Speaking of the latter, Qiao Dongliang couldn't help getting angry.

With the eldest daughter, Qiao Dongliang finally figured it out and told himself that sons and daughters are just as good, and that he really likes life in the army. He likes being a soldier. His father always said that he was born to be a soldier.

Even in order to be able to stay in the army, Qiao Dongliang has already figured out that it is enough to raise this daughter honestly.

Unexpectedly, Qiao Dongliang rested his mind, and Ding Jiayi began to make a fuss about wanting a son.

"You blame me now?!" Ding Jiayi was like a hedgehog, bristling all the quills on her body: "Who said that sons and daughters are as good as you are? Don't blame me for letting your Qiao family have no children and grandchildren. Account holder. Old Joe, your thinking is too outdated!"

What Ding Jiayi hates the most is that her stomach is not up to date, just because she gave birth to two daughters and lost their jobs.

For this matter, Ding's mother once came to find this daughter who was married far away, hugged her grandson and deliberately mocked Ding Jiayi for her lack of conscience, so God opened his eyes so that she could not give birth to a son.

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