Chapter 546 Love

Qin Jiale cooked crucian carp soup for her sister today. She asked sister-in-law Fang Hong last night, saying that crucian carp soup is good for breast milk.

So in order for her sister to replenish her body and her nephews have food rations, Qin Jiale went to the market early in the morning to buy crucian carp and came back to make soup for her sister.

"Sister, sister-in-law Fang Hong said crucian carp soup is good, so I made crucian carp soup for you today." Qin Jiale told her sister about today's meal as soon as he saw her.

"Okay, thank you Lele, thank you for your hard work." Qin Xue looked at her young sister, and she suddenly seemed to have grown up, taking good care of her diet.

"What did sister say? This is what I should do. Don't say such words again in the future, you know." Qin Jiale was not happy that her sister was so polite and unfamiliar with her.

"I'm sorry, I'm used to it. I'll pay attention to it in the future." Qin Xue is really used to it and doesn't think there is anything else, but as a person of this generation, she won't think that way.

You may feel that you are too polite and unenthusiastic, but in the new era, it is common for people in a community not to recognize you, and even people on the same floor to recognize you. That is even more normal.

But Qin Xue grew up in that era, and everything he did was naturally adapted to the style and habits of that era.

So it is said that an environment creates a person, and the environment in which you live can be revealed in your life.

Especially the issue of upbringing. Qin Xue remembers that she once met a mother and son while riding a bus. The two were not well dressed and were disliked by the people on the bus. However, the child did not show anything, but He held his mother's hand and sat quietly.

Later, when we arrived at a station, another mother and daughter came in, well dressed and fashionable.

Because there were so many people on the bus at that time and there were no extra seats, the girl complained that it was really annoying, why were there no seats?

The child with poor conditions stood up and gave up his position, but what he got was not thanks from the other party, but disgust from the other party.

Qin Xue remembers it like this: "Who asked you to give up your seat? You are so poorly dressed and in such bad clothes. Who knows if you have any disease or whether you are contagious or something." The girl with good conditions exposed it with just one mouth. Her tutoring problem.

But the poor mother just shook her head at her child, smiled and touched his head and gave him a thumbs up. In order not to let her child continue to be treated unfairly, she treated her child when he didn't speak. Say: "Son, you did a great job. You just did what you wanted in your heart. This is great. Mom is proud of you."

Then the child looked at his mother and smiled sweetly, with a dazzling confidence on her face.

Then everyone in the car looked at the well-off mother and daughter, who were so embarrassed that they were too embarrassed to continue riding in the car, so they got off the car early and left dejectedly.

Although this is a small thing, it also reflects how important a person's family cultivation is.

Although the mother and son are not as good as each other, they are well-educated, willing to help others, and will not refute or argue with others when they are insulted by others.

It doesn't mean that people are afraid of trouble, it just means that they don't want to care about it. If a dog bites you, will you bite the dog too?

Qin Xue deeply understood a truth from this incident: it is a kindness for others to help you, but it is a duty not to help you.

That is to say, don't squander the good things others have done to you. Once they are overdone, they will be gone.

This sentence is also very reasonable to use when getting along with friends, because some people rely on your kindness to them to ask for or hurt you, but everyone is not a fool, and who is willing to help you again and again and be used by you? right.

Therefore, whether it is friendship, family, or love, you must cherish the person who treats you well. Don't trample on other people's feelings.