Chapter 1865: Harming Others and Not Benefiting Yourself
To put it bluntly, if the other party is a big investor, it is possible that this amount of money can be multiplied several times in a very short time.
So at this time, if you want to repay this favor, the price you need to pay may be extremely high.
It is even possible that when you borrowed money, others asked you to make a promise to complete the deal.
After all, the other party is a businessman and it is impossible for him to do things that harm others and benefit himself.
Even if it is borrowing money or helping others, you should make some money like doing business as usual.
This little bit of money may not need too much, but you must take it.
Because people who do business are often a little superstitious and think that losing money is definitely not allowed.
Otherwise, once you do it, maybe the future business will end like this.
So if the other party lends you money and helps you, if you don’t need to take the money, then you will definitely use other ways to make you repay this favor.
For example, let you give up a project at hand in exchange for these funds to get through the current difficulties.
In a word, in the hearts of rich people, this favor is definitely very difficult to repay, and it is definitely worth a thousand gold.
The thousand gold here is definitely not as simple as the literal meaning, and it is not something that can be replaced by you paying a little money.
Because the other party does not need money, naturally, what they care about is not money, but other things.
It will never be like ordinary people, buying some fruit milk or something, or paying a few hundred or a thousand yuan as interest to repay this favor.
For rich people, a favor may make them pay several times more than the funds they borrowed at the time.
This is why it is said that rich people would rather borrow from banks with higher interest than ask friends for help.
Because as the saying goes, the debt of favor is as big as the sky.
Even if the other party does not want your money or your project, what if they ask you to do something that goes against your conscience? Or something illegal?
Then will you do it or not?
If you don’t do it, this friend may be gone from now on, and you can only pray that you will not encounter problems in the future.
Otherwise, if you go to others for help at that time, you will only be turned away.
The other party will also give you a few big words "Daydreaming!"
And your conscience will be greatly affected, thinking that you are an ungrateful person.
Others lent money to you and helped you through the difficulties. This is like a reborn parent, giving you a way out and a chance to be reborn.
Now that the other party is in trouble and needs you, you are unwilling to do this and keep looking for excuses to retreat.
Once such a thing gets out, will anyone be willing to help you in the future? Will anyone be willing to be friends with you?
People make friends in the hope that they can help each other when they have something to do in the future.
But you, the so-called friend, will only let others help you when you are in trouble.
When others are in trouble, you turn a blind eye and turn a deaf ear. Who will care about you?
Even if you have a big business, I believe that others will not want to associate with you and will give up cooperation with you.
It won't take long before you will be affected by this incident, leading to business failure, and finally even facing bankruptcy and liquidation.
At that time, you will definitely regret it, thinking that you were too mean, ungrateful, and you burned the bridge after crossing the river, which led to today's retribution.
Just like the saying goes, it's not that there is no retribution, it's not that the time has not come yet!
But if you do it, it's better if it's a legal thing.
Even if this matter is a bit tricky and you have to pay a certain amount of money as a price, you may do it.
Because you have to pay back this favor, who made you promise to help the other party do something.
Even if you know that this matter is not simple, in order to get the money and to solve the current problems, you can only accept it helplessly.
But the same thing, since you promised, you must do it.
But if you do it, you may face bigger problems.
Whether this matter is a good thing or a bad thing, whether it will affect your future development, all these must be considered.
Maybe you didn't think so much because you were in a hurry to use the money at that time.
But after you solve the matter, you will naturally calm down and judge what the other party said at the beginning.
If it is really illegal, you did it to repay the favor.
But the consequences that follow may be something you cannot afford.
This is the so-called dilemma, and this is the problem that rich people are afraid to ask friends for help.
As long as you can solve it yourself, don't bother others, and don't take that step unless it is absolutely necessary.
And the examples I just mentioned are just problems encountered in business or other aspects of life, which require capital turnover.
It is definitely not the previously mentioned problem of not having money to treat a terminal illness and asking for help.
Even normal use of money, and when you can repay after solving the problem, is so difficult.
Not to mention, if you have a terminal illness, the money you lend is basically a waste of money.
I believe that as long as you explain the situation, nine out of ten will not lend you money.
Even if he is a good brother, he is not a fool, unless he is very wealthy.
For him, whether he pays back the money or not, it will not affect his future life.
Otherwise, when they know that you are using the money for treatment, the first reaction of others will definitely be that the money will not be returned.
Because it is not to treat an ordinary disease, but a terminal disease, which is a disease that will kill you in 99.99% of cases.
So if you borrow money directly from him, even if he has it, he will definitely find an excuse to lie to you and say that he has no money, and ask you to find a solution elsewhere.
Even relatives are the same. They don’t want to lend out their hard-earned money and then not get it back.
After all, everyone is an ordinary person. No matter how much or how little money, it is earned by hard work, not blown by the wind.
So even if they offend you and make you not recognize them as brothers or relatives, they will not feel sorry for it, let alone be afraid.
Because you have a terminal disease, after some time, if you don’t have enough money and can’t get treatment, you will definitely not live long.
By then, you will be gone, what can you hate the other party with? What can you use to threaten the other party and negotiate with the other party?
For a person who is about to cease to exist, does the other person need to care about you so much? Does he need to be afraid of you?
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